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  • Writer's pictureEmiko dawes

Wedding Emcees' Do’s and Don’ts: Navigating Great Things to Say vs. Faux Pas

Being a wedding emcee is an honor that comes with great responsibility. As the master of ceremonies, you hold the power to set the tone of the entire event, making it a memorable experience for the couple and their guests. To ensure you strike the right chord, we've compiled a comprehensive list of do's and don'ts to guide you through the art of being a remarkable wedding emcee.


  1. Warm Welcome: Start with a warm welcome to make everyone feel included and excited about the celebration.

  2. Introduce Yourself: Share a brief introduction about who you are and your connection to the couple.

  3. Share Personal Anecdotes: Share heartwarming stories and anecdotes about the couple's journey, highlighting their love and unique quirks.

  4. Acknowledge the Audience: Thank the guests for joining the celebration and acknowledge their presence.

  5. Smooth Transitions: Maintain a smooth flow between different segments of the wedding, ensuring the event progresses seamlessly.

  6. Respect Cultural Norms: Be mindful of the couple's cultural background and traditions, incorporating them respectfully into your script.

  7. Engage with the Audience: Encourage participation through interactive games or questions that involve the guests.

  8. Express Gratitude: Thank the couple's families for their contributions and efforts in making the day special.

  9. Toast to Love: Raise a heartfelt toast to the couple's everlasting love and happiness.


  1. Inappropriate Humor: Avoid offensive or inappropriate jokes that may offend anyone present.

  2. Overpowering Presence: While you are central to the event, avoid overshadowing the couple's moment with excessive talking.

  3. Excessive Self-Reference: Minimize talking about yourself; the focus should be on the couple and their celebration.

  4. Political or Controversial Topics: Steer clear of any topics that may spark debates or disagreements.

  5. Neglecting Pronunciation: Practice pronouncing names and words correctly to show respect and avoid embarrassment.

  6. Rushing Through Speeches: Take your time while speaking; rushing can make you difficult to understand.

  7. Forgetting Names: Do not forget names or mix up details, as this could diminish your credibility.

  8. Overusing Clichés: While some clichés are fine, excessive use can make your script sound insincere.

  9. Ignoring Timelines: Keep an eye on the schedule to ensure you're not running over time, respecting the event's flow.

As a bonus, here are 30 excerpts, sayings, and quotes that a wedding emcee can incorporate into a wedding emcee's script to add charm and meaning to the event:

  1. "Love is not about finding the perfect person, but about seeing an imperfect person perfectly."

  2. "Two souls, one heart. Today, they embark on a journey as a united work of art."

  3. "May your love be modern enough to survive the times, but old-fashioned enough to last forever."

  4. "Like a good wine, love only gets better with time."

  5. "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person." - Mignon McLaughlin

  6. "In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine." - Maya Angelou

  7. "Marriage is not just spiritual communion; it is also remembering to take out the trash." - Joyce Brothers

  8. "To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides." - David Viscott

  9. "Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness." - Oliver Wendell Holmes

  10. "The best thing to hold onto in life is each other." - Audrey Hepburn

  11. "Love is the bridge between two hearts, connecting them forever."

  12. "May your marriage be filled with endless love, countless adventures, and boundless laughter."

  13. "As you journey through life together, may your love grow stronger with each step."

  14. "Your love story is a testament to the fact that true love knows no boundaries."

  15. "Love is like a fine wine; it gets better with age and brings out the best in both of you."

  16. "From two lives, your love story emerges, creating a beautiful tale worth celebrating."

  17. "Marriage is not just a union of two people; it's the intertwining of dreams and destinies."

  18. "Love is not just gazing at each other, but looking outward together in the same direction." - Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

  19. "Every love story is beautiful, but yours is our favorite."

  20. "True love stories never have endings."

  21. "As you walk hand in hand, remember that every step brings you closer to a lifetime of happiness."

  22. "Two hearts, one soul. Today, they vow to make their love story whole."

  23. "Love doesn't make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." - Franklin P. Jones

  24. "May your marriage be a reflection of the love that brought you here today."

  25. "In your journey together, may every sunrise bring hope, and every sunset bring fulfillment."

  26. "To the newlyweds: May your love be a source of strength, inspiration, and endless joy."

  27. "The beauty of marriage lies in the little moments you share, the adventures you embark on, and the dreams you build together."

  28. "In each other's arms, you have found your forever home."

  29. "A successful marriage is not just about finding the right person but being the right person for each other."

  30. "As you exchange vows today, may your hearts forever be entwined in a tapestry of love."

These excerpts and quotes can add a touch of eloquence and sentimentality to the role of a wedding emcee, creating a memorable and heartwarming atmosphere for the couple and their guests.

Becoming a standout wedding emcee involves finding the right balance between making meaningful connections and respecting the significance of the day. Following these do's and don'ts will help you navigate the responsibilities with grace and confidence, ensuring that you deliver a memorable experience that celebrates the love of the couple and leaves everyone with cherished memories. Your role as a wedding emcee is a gift, so make it count by embracing these guidelines and helping to make the couple's special day truly unforgettable.



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